Why are people like Oprah, George Clooney, Tony Robbins, Dwayne “The Rock” Johnson and others so magnetizing? Is it their money? Their fame? Their popularity?
No, no and no. It’s 100% because of their attitude! The are at the top of the pyramid because they not only attract attention, they do it in a way so subtle that we don’t even know why we are drawn to them. This all comes down to their attitude.
What do I mean by this?
They always appear to be positive, happy, smiling, sociable and intelligent. The intelligent thing is another topic of always reading and learning, and I’ll cover that in another article. As far as those other attributes, these are things that are all part of their attitude, and they don’t even have to think about it. That’s just who they are.
Are some people just born happy and energetic?
I’m sure some people just have the natural ability to see the light side of the moon instead of the dark side, but for most people this can be difficult in today’s world. We are consumed with bad information (read the “You Are What We….Learn?” article) and negative data, which makes it incredibly challenging to try and see the positives in a crowd of negatives. But is it impossible? Absolutely not!
Anyone can develop those same traits that make the greats so magnetizing! Even if you aren’t born with this energy (like most aren’t), you can develop this through effort and habits. You first need to realize when you are being negative. Once you become conscious of when you are feeling this way or doing harmful things, your second step is to stop yourself in the act. The third step is to immediately think and say something positive. The fourth step is to smile even if you don’t feel like it, which you probably won’t at first.
- Realize you’re being negative
- Stop yourself in the act
- Immediately think and say something positive
- Smile
Now that you have the formula for being positive, you need to use this over and over and over again each and every day! This is not something that will become natural to you after a few tries, this is a never-ending practice just like showering each day. I hope you’re showering every day…
Even though you will constantly need to practice this, it DOES become easier and more natural as time goes on, until it eventually just becomes part of who you are. Even the steps become ingrained in you so you won’t be thinking about them, but instead your brain will only think “I need to execute The Positive Attitude Formula” now. And because you’re always thinking that, you will (almost) always be positive throughout each day, no matter what you’re going through.
Look, the people I mentioned above have reached the top BECAUSE of their attitude. They didn’t just get happy and positive once they already made all the money and had all the success. This is what took them to the top!
You need to do this! Look at what you post on social media, the things you read, the things you say, your attitude towards things you don’t like or want to do. If you notice anything that is negative, make the decision to change that. Nobody will ever be perfect, but you can always be better!
Here’ the goal…
- Always be positive
- Always look for the solution, don’t focus on the problem
- Always smile
- Always give off positive energy to the people around you
- Always know that you don’t need to be perfect
- Always do things that help you feel great
- Always keep positive people around you
I can promise you that just changing your attitude to being positive, energetic and wanting to add value to the world around you will change your life! You don’t have to have a plan aside from that right there, and you will feel like a completely different person in 90 days. You owe it to yourself to do this, and you deserve to feel great and be great!
Go Big,
JM
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